Rollercoastering life

       Recently I have been watching “Criminal Minds” which tells the stories of some serial killer cases handled by B.A.U (Behavior Analysis Unit) of FBI. B.A.U is dealing with the most twisted and mentally sick murders in US. In most cases, the serial killers suffered from some trauma in the childhood or from their parents. They were abused by their parents, relatives or some abusers, and in turn they become the abusers themselves.

     In real life cases, one person is the tenant who suffers from all the rudeness and unreasonables and the abuse from her landlord. When she becomes the landlord one day, she becomes the most horrible abuser herself, and tries every way to make it difficult for her tenant’s leaving. As a teenager, you hated the way your parents talked to you or discipined you or something they said to you, but when one day you become a parent, you sadly realize that you raise your children exactly like your mother or your father did. Another good example is someone like myself. My previous boss was very strict with me in respect of work, vacations, office behaviors and the like, in turn I’m always expecting everyone else to behave like the way my previous boss trained me. All these are vicious circles, and all these reflect human nature. And we never really think why the victims want others to suffer like they did. Strange enough….

     Anyway, I like this show. So far, only Dr. Reid and Garcia are attractive to me, will continue to chase it.

     Chris Vance plays as a cool shrink, Jack Gallagher, in a new TV show MENTAL. OMG, he is sooo HOT!!! His smile melts away everything, so does his English accent!

      周日跟老徐一块儿去看Star Trek了，女孩子一向不是特别热衷科幻电影，随便看看还可以，要说是多喜欢，那是谈不上啦，肯定加确定也不会看第二遍啦。幸运的是我们买到了八佰伴VIP放映厅的票子，座位很大，很舒服，就是飞机上的头等舱似的，虽然偶也没有做过头等舱。科幻电影，大场面，激光啊、飞船啊、战舰啊、爆炸啊、黑洞啊、打斗啊，不同星球的各种物种啊什么的，反正挺热闹的，音响效果不错，屏幕很大。主演是个年轻的小伙子，查了一下叫Chris Pine，我看到他第一眼我就惊呼：“这小子太像Brad Pitt了”。跟旁边的老徐同学交流了一下，她也同样惊呼：“是啊，我说怎么这个人看着这么眼熟呢！”然后，在接下来100多分钟里面，我们俩除了笑了几声那个18岁俄罗斯小伙儿恶搞笑的英文发音外，其他时间里都在惊呼，眼睛太像Brad Pitt了，鼻子太像Brad Pitt了，嘴巴太太太像Brad Pitt了，到最后的时候，我和老徐一致得出的结论是：这个扮演Jim的演员八成是Brad Pitt的亲戚！！！汗啊～～

       幸亏我们做的是VIP的放映厅，人和人离得都比较远，要是在通常的放映厅里面，我俩肯定得被旁边的男生给打死：看电影啊，还是替Brad Pitt找亲戚啊～～

• HOUSE and CUDDY have been playing mouse and cat, thief and cop for five years. In Season 5 Episode 23, they two finally got together.........I can't wait to see how they two will face the colleagues in the hospital, and most of all, how HOUSE will act as a Daddy to Cuddy's little bady girl, haha...;

• I bought a Lenovo cell phone P80, very good so far. This is the picture my colleague took for me in the office with this phone camera, not bad, huh?

 Here is the phone

My phone ring is 古巨基's new song- Masterpiece 大师作品. Love the Cello playing in this song 

        Too much’s going on in my work, too little in my life. It is said that everybody should live a happy life, 40% of which is born to be, 40% is what you choose by yourself, the remaining 20% is what you get from good shows. That’s so true.

1. CSI New York S05 E22

     It’s about a murder by a hidden Nacist from Germany who turned in desperate Jews for a price. This is a touching episode. Knowing more than six millions Jews were killed mercilessly, I can’t help but thinking that personal tragedy is never a real tragedy, only the social tragedy can truly touch your heart and make you think.

      And for the murderer himself, I think I can use one or two phrases to conclude: “People NEVER change, and NEVER change for anybody, even if for the sake of love.”

2. A Frozen Flower

      It’s a Korean movie starred by beautiful boys and girls with beautiful costumes and pictures and amazing colors. A lot of audiences expect it to be a wonderful boy love,but it turned out to be a vulgar erotic movie. The King loves his bodyguard, but his bodyguard loves the Queen. So the King gets jealous and ends up hurting the boyguard. Both died at the end. Definitely, there is nothing special about the script. But I can always get something from any good or bad movie.

       Love is an invidual thing. Most time, we just love by ourselves. Don’t ever expect the one you love will love back as hard as you do. Otherwise, your love will end up destroying everything, including the love itself.

3. Eason Chan on Luo Zhixiang’s show 080728

    Still craze about Eason. I found a video about Eason being in the show 娱乐百分百hosted by Luo Zhixiang, A.K.A. 小猪 Mr. Pig, which was unbelievably hilarious and I had a good laugh at it, and Eason was pretty much laughed to death too. Mr. Pig is a good singer and I know him as a singer as well, but I don’t know that he is sooo good at hosting the entertainment shows, he is humorous, smart, outgoing and very creative, which surprises me.

    But yesterday I found a news about him saying that he sent his half-naked vidoe photo to a girl he met on the internet. A lot of rumors about it are going on right now, but there is one of his explanations seems reasonable to me.

    Yes, it’s true. All of us are lonely……

罗志祥坦承很寂寞

http://www.sina.com.cn 2009年05月01日08:34 新安晚报

　　4月29日晚，艺人罗志祥（小猪）在录制《娱乐百分百》时对其日前卷入的网恋事件作出回应，他称自己受骗，同时，他也在节目中向母亲、粉丝及公司道歉。罗志祥表示因太寂寞才尝试玩网络交友和虚拟性爱。当天，台湾《壹周刊》报道称一位名为Fanny的香港女子即是罗志祥的网络情人，对此小猪表示此女与他之前视频聊天的并非同一人。

　　节目中小猪没有提到网恋。他只是表示艺人也需要交朋友，但“管道”太少，本来以为网络是个好的抒发“管道”，未想受骗。罗志祥也澄清为何对方有他半裸的照片，他表示因为聊了一个多月，开视频给对方看表示他真的是罗志祥也真心要跟她交朋友，因为他在健身所以才半裸。“我一直不知道MSN聊天记录和视频可以存下来，现在才知道！”小猪慨叹当艺人很辛苦，交朋友很不容易：“我是诚心诚意想交朋友，没想到发生这种事，网络真的很可怕！”

　　据了解，小猪今年1月通过交友网站FACE BOOK认识一名叫做Fanny的女网友，因为这名女网友酷似Selina才会动心。但是对方的言语越来越露骨，吓得小猪赶紧结束这段关系。但是没想到这名女网友却刻意截取罗志祥裸露上半身的照片与视频及私密对话向媒体报料，这才让罗志祥发觉遭到陷害了。

       昨晚上好High啊，Eason唱的实在是太太太好了，实力派就是实力派，连唱带跳的基本上都不走音，而且每首歌都唱得很用心，很有感觉，我坐在将近“两公里”以外的位子上拿着望远镜，听歌听得津津有味:-) Eason以一袭黑色婚纱出场，一首皆一首唱歌，全场的高潮出现在Eason唱“浮夸”，衣服的造型，加上Eason卖力的演唱，尤其是Eason把他那件衣服象鸟一样展开的时候，全场的粉丝都沸腾了，Eason唱这首歌投入得好像都哭了哦。

      不过，Eason童鞋还是照例的很搞怪，一开口就能把人给笑死。他跳舞跳的太卖力，那件衣服腰太大，后面都漏光啦，他自嘲说人家叫他“陈小胖”，其实他是“陈大胖”，胖不要紧，最主要是“放”，还说其实呢，他的屁股不胖，很小的（他自己还摸一摸^_^），只是大腿太粗，结果他们做衣服把腰给做大啦，所以衣服才会掉下来，哈哈，笑死我了，陈大胖同志！

       这次演唱会陈大胖一共唱了30或者31首歌吧，大部分歌是粤语歌，他说是因为去年来开演唱会歌迷投诉他国语歌唱的太多。但是呢，粤语歌虽然好听，不大容易跟歌迷互动，还是后来唱到《兄妹》的时候，真的是全场一起大合唱，壮观的咧，有视频为证！本来呢以为新专辑H3M里歌，陈大胖唱个两首就已经不错了，没想到他唱了四首！好劲！

     再说一下他带来的Band成员，Pal和Joey都在香港古巨基的演唱会上演奏，所以这次陈大胖带来了刘志远来弹主音吉他，刘志远是何人？陈大胖介绍说，他就是Beyond的第五个成员，我回来后搜索了一下，发现当年刘志不知何故远离开Beyond，后来和梁翘柏等人组成了浮世夸乐队，也是相当了得的人物啊。Jim Lau柳重言担任合音，镜头扫了一下他，打扮得很入时，黑色针织帽，棕色的皮衣，陈大胖说，《七百年后》、《天下无双》、《绵绵》等都是柳重言写的，厉害！CY Kong也在现场哦，陈大胖介绍他的时候他起身招手了（水晶晶告诉我的），我拿着个望远镜使劲看，也没有看到CY大人，真是让我懊恼哦～～。接着呢，钟达茵、陈匡荣Davy Chan、孙伟明啊都是一直跟着Moving On Stage走的。

    总之呢，我这次真是见识了陈大胖的实力了，他说他年底还来上海开演唱会，到时候我还去，嘿嘿！歌单附后：

K歌之王 （粤）
烟味 
婚礼的祝福 
你的背包 
明年今日 （粤）
谢谢侬 
马里奥派对 （粤）
路一直都在 
Allegro Opus 3.3Am （粤）
冲口而出 （粤）
想哭 
我们都寂寞 
大开眼界 （粤）
浮夸 （粤）
富士山下 （粤）
七百年后 （粤）
Shall We Talk （粤）
幸福摩天轮 （粤）
每一个明天 （粤）
第五个现代化 （粤）
演唱会 （粤）
不如这样 
兄妹 
淘汰 
夕阳无限好 （粤）
天下无双 （粤）
在你身边 
沙龙 （粤）
还有什么可以送给你 （粤）
单车 （粤）
与我常在 （粤）

        穿上宽松又保暖的衣服，马上出发去看陈奕迅的演唱会啦，当然演唱会晚上七点半才开始呢，我和水晶晶先去四川北路和鲁迅公园逛逛去，反正兴奋的在家里也待不住。什么？什么？年纪一大把了还这么幼稚？啊呦，不管年纪多大，我们都要保持一颗年轻的心和孩子一样的热情，这样才会使自己发挥无限潜力，看我们家因扎吉，帽子戏法一个又一个的，不保持孩子一样的热情哪能如此神武？

     E神这次没有变成雨神，天气呢虽然不是太明媚，但是没有下雨啊，哈哈，好啊。Tonight’s got to be GREAT!

       昨天看了电影《叶问》，甄子丹的咏春拳打的真是好看，听说他在拍电影之前只练了一个月，强啊，不知道他能不能凭借此片拿到金像奖最佳男主角。看过很多关于叶问的评论，印象最深的是说叶问是个典型的“宅男”，每天只知道练功、喝茶，连跟人家比武也是关上门在家里打；朋友清泉找他合伙做生意，他说他不缺钱；佛山的很多人找他开武馆，他说不收徒弟；战争开始了，叶问被迫离开他家的大宅，当掉几乎所有的东西来买米，家里快断粮了，他才想起来要出去找工作。他脾气好，对什么都看得开，几乎没有懊恼或生气过，除了知道自己喜欢练功、不惹太太生气外，其他事情好像不太关心。这样一个温和性格的人竟然能被甄子丹很好的演绎出来，实在是不容易啊。

    电影一开始，叶问、她太太和儿子在他家漂亮的大宅里一起无声的吃饭，新开的武馆师傅找叶问来切磋武艺，叶问告诉武馆师傅他来的不时候，因为他们一家人在吃饭，武馆师傅说他可以等，叶问继续回到桌边与家人无声的吃饭，后来叶问邀请武馆师傅一起吃饭，然后四个人一起无声的吃饭。吃完饭后，仆人上茶点，叶问喝茶、抽烟，武馆师傅吃甜点，叶问太太带儿子离开客厅。叶问吩咐仆人关门，开始与武馆师傅切磋，武馆师傅被打到后，叶问还连忙问“没事儿吧？”，最终武馆师傅切磋失败告辞，叶问微笑送别。单从这一段，就惟妙惟肖的表明了叶问的性格。叶问一家三口无声无息做在一起吃饭的场景，真的给人很特别的感觉，看了之后自己的心也平静了下来。Grace我也要从现在开始修炼我“宠辱不惊”的性格，不要动不动就发怒、吐血、生气加垂头顿足，人生这么短，有什么事儿那么想不开啊，是谁说的话来着，生气就是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己，这句话说的是太对了。

   电影中叶问和武痴林在煤场吃红薯，看的我是流口水啊，昨天看完电影后跑到菜场买了三个红薯，蒸了一个吃，唉，好像没有电影里面的颜色红，也没有叶问吃的时候看起来那么好吃啊，唉～～